parenting peacefully since 2006

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08 Jul, 2010

homemade yogurt

Posted by: blissfule In: Perth

I recently started making my own homemade yogurt.
 
 
We all agree that it's even yummier than store-bought.

04 May, 2010

beginning chores

Posted by: blissfule In: Perth

 
Inspired by the Positive Parenting 365 blog, I have begun to give my older children specific chores they can accomplish on their own.
 
The tasks I chose are real, everyday activities in which they have expressed interest.
 
 
For instance, Michael loves to wash dishes, so I put him in charge of washing his plastic bib after breakfast. I put a little water and dish soap in the sink, and off he goes. He has to have his bib washed and hanging on the dish drainer before he has his first numnum of the day.
 
 
Nikki's first chore is one she loves: helping with Lex's food. After watching me so often she needed only one brief training session before owning the task. Nikki is now required to feed Lex and wash her hands before she sits down to her own lunch.
 
You can see that I am using food (breastmilk, lunch) as a motivator. This began with room tidying before meals, and of course setting the table, in order to avoid having to discipline or nag.
 
Nikki and Michael have owned their new chores for a little over a week, and I am happy to report that they have completed their tasks quickly and with enthusiasm.

15 Mar, 2010

homemade baby wipes

Posted by: blissfule In: Perth

Following the post introducing my homemade bleach wipes, Robin asked me to describe the homemade baby wipes we use.
 
 
First I'll explain why I like them, then I'll share an easy method for making and using your own.
 
why cloth baby wipes are great
 
  • use as many as you want to clean a big pooey mess, without any extra cost
  • soft on baby's bottom
  • no unknown or undesirable chemicals or irritants
  • easily customise to suit your child, by adjusting the amounts and ingredients in your wipe solution (note: please keep all baby wipe ingredients out of children's reach, as you would any other chemical)
 
make your own using this recipe:
homemade baby wipes
 
You will need:
  • 40 or so soft washable cloth pieces, sized slightly bigger than your hand (approx 18cm x 20cm) - I use organic cotton squares like these, since I like to avoid chemicals on young babies' skin
  • a pet bowl or other non-spillable, non-breakable bowl - I use a stainless steel version to make sure I can get it absolutely clean
  • rubbish bin with tight-fitting lid
  • two mesh laundry bags, suitably sized for lining the bin
  • wipe solution:
    1. normal, room-temperature tap water
    2. 1-3 drops of tea tree oil - I use this for its antiseptic properties when a child has diaper rash, and also because it eliminates the smell in my diaper pail
Method:
  • Fill the pet bowl halfway with water, and add one to three drops of tea tree oil
  • Stack dry wipes next to the pet bowl at your changing station
  • When confronted with a wiping situation, grab one wipe and dip it in the solution
  • Wipe baby's bottom
  • Place used wipe on top of the nappy
  • Grab another wipe, dip in solution, wipe, place on top of nappy; repeat as necessary
  • DO NOT dip a used wipe back in the solution
  • Use a final wipe to grab all the used ones and drop them in the bin
  • When you are running low, remove the mesh bag from the bin, close it and throw it in the wash (make sure the mesh bag isn't stuffed too full)
  • Line the bin with a clean mesh laundry bag
  • Retrieve clean wipes from the dryer or clothesline, stack the clean wipes, and repeat
variations to try:
 
Many websites recommend using a spray bottle to dispense the wipe solution, and I have tried that. However, I think my pet bowl, while inelegant, is less fiddly (I had to pump the bottle several times before it sprayed) and more hygienic (I found it difficult to clean the spray bottle with its many parts).
 
I love the simplicity of water and tea tree oil, but there are many baby wipe recipes available. Have fun experimenting!
 

23 Feb, 2010

Pear Budget

Posted by: blissfule In: Perth

A scientist and an engineer fall in love, get married, create a budget.
 
Fast-forward ten years later, and our budget-tracking spreadsheet has at least 50 different categories. Despite this level of detail, I have no real idea of where we stand unless I look at our bank account balance.
 

photo my mum took of my dad with a pear at Apple FunPark
 
Pear Budget stood out as an alternative to our spreadsheet madness, and I signed up for a free 30-day trial in December which convinced me to purchase a full year of online service. Here are a few reasons why I love it so far:
  1. super easy to enter (and edit) expenses and income - I admit I now enjoy entering receipts
  2. convenient "tags" field to add notes - much easier than adding a comment to a cell in Excel
  3. you never have to press a "save" button or worry about backing up any files
  4. enter that month's income and that month's expenses - if you purchase something you've saved for before starting Pear Budget, you can put in a receipt with a negative amount to show that you already had the money saved
  5. owners Charlie and Sarah are very responsive and love to answer questions - they really do want to make it easy to keep track of your budget
I will continue testing this online budgeting service to see if it stands up to real life, irregular expenses and all. Stay tuned for a more thorough review in a few months. If you have any questions you'd like me to try to answer as I'm poking around, just let me know.
 
Please note, this is not a compensated review, just a product I like.
 

28 Jan, 2010

toilet training Lex

Posted by: blissfule In: Perth

We love our simple small house. It's got a great floor plan and a spacious bathroom, which is big enough for the litter box to wedge into the space between the toilet and the bathtub.
 
 
While that solution did work, it wasn't ideal. Wouldn't it be better to get rid of the litter?
 
How wonderful, I thought, to say goodbye to litter crumbs, to flush rather than scoop, and - most of all - to reclaim the floor space Lex's huge litter box occupied in our otherwise marvelous bathroom.
 
 
Fortunately we're not the first people to dream of training a cat to use the human toilet. Aston Lau has even written a book about it, The Toilet Trained Cat.
 
 
By following the clear instructions in Aston's book, we have made some progress, and the huge litter box is gone. We now have a smaller litter pan duct taped to the toilet seat. Lex has peed in it, but we're waiting for him to poo in it as well.
 
 
After he passes that test, we'll give him a few more days to get used to hopping up there to do his business before we move him to stage two, which involves getting rid of the litter box and moving to a roasting pan embedded between the toilet seat and the basin.
 
 
You may wonder where we humans are using the toilet while we have various contraptions duct taped to our loo. Fortunately, we have a dunny outside as part of our shed.
 
We hope to have Lex fully trained and to be litter free before the first autumn rain!

07 Jan, 2010

homemade bleach wipes

Posted by: blissfule In: Perth

In the spirit of doing less this year, I plan to periodically share some of the shortcuts that allow me to parent more efficiently and work smarter.
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I love having only one bathroom, because that means I only have to clean one bathroom.
 
The downside is that we're all sharing one bathroom.
 
Somehow I don't find it restful to soak in a bathtub decorated with cat litter crumbs.
 
And as wonderful as it is to have a toilet trained preschooler, I could do without the little drips on the toilet seat. And did I mention that we plan to toilet train our son soon?
 
sanitizing frequently used surfaces
 
 
I like the vinegar cleaner I use in the kitchen. However, our bathroom demands full-on germ warfare.
 
Bleach would do the trick, but in order to use it frequently I want a safe, convenient way to store and dispense it in the bathroom. Clorox® wipes aren't readily available here, and I imagine they would be expensive if they were.
 
So, I made my own using this recipe:
 
homemade bleach wipes
 
You will need: Method:
  • Cut reusable red towels into baby wipe size (approx 18cm x 20cm)
  • Fold the towels in half and place them in an empty baby wipe container
  • Pour bleach solution over the wipes
  • Pull out one wipe and use it to clean frequently used bathroom surfaces
  • Throw the used wipe in a little flip-top plastic bin
  • When you start to run low, wash the used wipes and repeat
I am well rewarded for the half hour it took to make these wipes when I sink gratefully into a marvelously crumb-free bath. Ahhhh.

11 Aug, 2009

tea set tablecloth / play mat

Posted by: blissfule In: Perth

Following on the success of the Lego® / Duplo® play mat, we recently completed a similar draw-string solution for the children's much-loved and often-scattered tea set.
 
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At approximately 1.5m square, the tea set play mat is an excellent size to double as a tablecloth over our coffee table.
 
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Oh the pouring, cooking, serving, stirring fun!

06 Aug, 2009

stack of napkins

Posted by: blissfule In: Perth

Nesting continues!
 
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Over the past several weeks, I have been slowly making napkins for our family to use at the dinner table. This activity was inspired by Nicki's tutorial on napkin sewing and is a follow-on to our continued effort to wean ourselves off our expensive and wasteful paper towel habit.
 
The most fun part, for me, was buying the material. Since making the napkins is part of an effort to reduce waste, I decided to search for fabric at Salvos, a thrift store run by the Salvation Army. I found a shirt with an embroidered design on the front that would cut down to child-sized napkins. And I spotted a bed ruffle (marked single size, but when I got it home the tag on the sheet said "double") in a deep purple that I really liked. I spent $15 on these two items.
 
My first step when I got the fabric home was to wash the shirt and sheet. Then I pulled apart the seams on the sheet and cut out the embroidered sections on the shirt.
 
Next, I started to think about how to hem the napkins. Nicki's tutorial involved ironing, an activity that I happen to loathe - unlike my friend Megan who is blessed with the ability to enjoy ironing!
 
In order to avoid extra ironing and maximise the finished napkin size, I bought an $11 narrow rolled hem foot at Spotlight.
 
And then I took a deep breath. Several deep breaths. Because now it was time to use my sewing machine.
 
To say my sewing machine and I don't get along is an understatement (and I'm not the only one to have trouble with the inappropriately-named "Joy's Sewing Machines"). For whatever reason, my machine insists on being re-threaded every 6-8 stitches. I call my sewing machine the patience machine.
 
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The patience machine and I started off with some practice napkins in red material left over from another project. The edges on those red napkins are pretty crooked, but they are a hit with the tea-drinking crowd around here.
 
Then, after one of the red napkins made its way through the laundry, I realised I needed to finish and reinforce the corners by hand.
 
Using my learnings from the play napkins, I cut out four white squares: two 19-inch squares for adults made from the backs of two dress shirts that had stains on the cuffs and collars, and two 12-inch squares made from the embroidered sections of the shirt I bought at Salvos. After machine-sewing relatively straight hems, I hand-finished the corners.
 
Next I moved to the purple napkins made from the bed skirt. The ruffled edges were the perfect width for 12-inch squares for children's napkins, and the middle section cut easily into six 24-inch squares for the adults.
 
Ben simplified the cutting-out process by making two cardboard templates for me. Rather than measuring and marking each piece, I folded and pinned the purple material together and simply cut around each template. So much easier to cut out several squares at once.
 
At this point, I had run out of patience with the patience machine, and with the hand stitching that was occupying every spare moment (not something I can do while breastfeeding). I decided to try a much easier method - finishing the edges of the purple napkins with pinking shears. Quick, simple, and perfect for everyday use.
 
Now I just need to find a place to put them...

05 Aug, 2009

Lego® / Duplo® play mat

Posted by: blissfule In: Perth

We love Duplo®! But I'm not so fond of stepping on them or finding them scattered under the furniture.
 
tiny happy posted a great solution: a homemade play mat.
 
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I found some fun fabric at IKEA, got the edges overlocked ("serged" for the Americans) at A-1 Alterations, and added grommets to thread a drawstring.
 
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The finished play mat is ~1.5m x 1.5m, which allows room for two toddlers to get in on the Duplo® fun.
 
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Cleanup is a snap - just throw the four corners into the middle and grab the drawstrings to create a stripey bag.
 
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This idea works so well that I am making another play mat to double as a tablecloth for their tea set.

27 Jul, 2009

week 37: nesting

Posted by: blissfule In: Perth

During each pregnancy, I tend to start a number of projects, with the goal of getting them all completed before the new baby arrives.
 

photo credit :: yojimbot
 
The nesting instinct, as it is known, is super useful. I find it much easier to get things done with baby in the womb than I do once the early weeks of round-the-clock nappies and numnums commence. From experience, I know I can be far more productive around the house now than I will be for the first nine months of the new baby's life.
 
Even though I'm full-term today, I think the baby is going to wait a bit and give me a chance to complete the following projects that I've had underway for a few months now:
  1. add grommets and drawstrings to the Lego® / Duplo® playmat and tea set playmat
  2. hem 16 cloth napkins - 8 for Nikki and Michael, 8 for Mama and Baba
  3. get the garage cleared out of all the unnecessary things in storage out there
  4. add finishing touches to the dollhouse for Nikki's 3rd birthday
  5. wrap gifts from the new baby for Nikki and Michael
When each of these projects is complete, I will take pictures and let you know a little more about where I got the inspiration for all this activity!

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Blissful E is about parenting peacefully, sustainably, joyfully, and with a view toward maximizing long-term benefits for the entire family.
 
I believe that the more wisely we invest in the early years of our children's lives, the greater the benefits for us and them as they grow.
 
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